If you have recently experience a break up with your lover, you are not alone! I know exactly what you are going through….the pain is real and it hurts!- Everyday, you hear of couples breaking up around the world. Just recently, the Hollywood couple, LeAnn Rimes and Dean Sheremet, went their separate ways due to an affair. This may or may not be similar to your situation but I know your love is still there for your ex and you want him back! In this article, I reveal to you 4 tips and strategies that you will need to follow to help you get back with your lover.
Tip 1: Never Show That You Are Weak
This is extremely important! You do not want to appear to be desperate or “dying to get back together”. This is pathetic and it makes you look like a 6 year-old girl! Do not belittle yourself – stand strong for the sake of womanhood! Oh course, you are still in love with him but do not sell yourself short. If he sees this in you, he will take full advantage of the situation. Play a little hard to get at first, in order to show him that it was his loss also and not your own.
Tip 2: No Tricks: Communicate Only Twice A Week
Now, this step maybe one of the most difficult ones to follow but you must adhere to the following instructions! If you are positively sure that your ex husband or ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, then you may try to strike up a conversation with him. Keep communication to a minimum such as twice a week and do not try any sneaky tricks such as pressuring a friend to try to contact him from an outside source. Or do not leave desperate notes or messages on your MySpace, Twitter or Facebook page for him to read. A short text message, brief phone call or a voice mail message is all that is needed to remind him that you still love him and want him to part of your life! If you overwhelm him with lots of text messages, emails or phone calls, you will be doing more damage to the relationship.
Tip 3: Be Patient…Time Is Your Friend
Listen….time is definitely on your side! Soon he will weaken and begin to show significant interest in you again and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with him. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.
Tip 4: The More Space, The Better
Give your man space! I can’t make this any clearer! You must stop smothering him and you must avoid looking desperate or needy! If your ex husband or ex boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is worth. Either he is not interested in you right now, or he really just need space and therefore you should leave him alone! Men do not like drama so do not try to bother him! If you do this, he will slowly and gradually warm up to you again and you will have him back in your life.
These are just 4 of the beginning steps in winning your ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. I discovered these first 4 tips and the remaining steps in “The Magic Of Making Up“. This system gave me the exact steps to follow to get my true love back fast.
And it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever. I highly recommend you read “The Magic Of Making Up” if you sincerely want to renew your relationship with your ex. Click below: