I Need My Ex Back

Is your love life in jeopardy? Does your current relationship needs to be saved from total destruction? Does it resemble a terrible house fire?

You know what I am talking about…..

You smell the smoke, hear the crackle of a flame and
start to swoon from the searing heat.

and…

You suspect there’s about to be a raging fire.

But the fire and carnage you fear won’t be from
any material possessions lost, but from something much
more precious, a once loving relationship going up in flames.

No matter what issue set your fire ablaze, many
of us don’t know where or how to begin applying
the water to put the fire out.

In fact…

Unlike a real fire where a fireman first looks to
find, attack and cool the source of the fire (if possible).

Many times attacking the center of the heat is the WRONG approach to take
when trying to extinguish our relationship problems and fires.

For example, let’s imagine that since this ‘recession’
your relationship has flamed up some worrisome financial fires.

Not too hard to imagine these days?

These may start as little brush fires, small issues and arguments
over how and where money is being spent…or not spent.

Then, maybe because of the heat and pressure of these
financial fires one partner starts ‘escaping’ more than
is healthy for the relationship.

He escapes into TV, Video Games, Alcohol, Cyber
Porn…or worse?

Now…what do we have?

We’ve got two fires smoldering away and soon to be a third because
the other partner is starting to feel lonely and isolated.

Can you almost feel the pressure?

Feel it coming to a boil?

Now with three fires off to a crackling start there’s
even greater risk of fire and damage spreading to other areas.

So? Just which fire do we put out first?

Our financial fire? Our financial blaze seems pretty tough to
extinguish right now and not likely to die soon.

So maybe we should start with the escapism? That seems
like an easy fire to put out…IF you’re not the one escaping!

…and try telling someone that’s feeling lonely and isolated
that “they should just snap out of it” is like throwing fuel
into the fire.

So where do we begin when we don’t see any
good place to start? And we finally realize that
trying to stomp out all our blazes at once actually spreads
the fire?…FASTER!

The answer is…

Unlike fighting a REAL fire, we start where there
IS NO FIRE.

Yes, start where there is absolutely no smoke, no heat
and no flame.

What we need to do is stop focusing on the problem(s)
and focus on where we still have passion…even if
it’s just a little.

Find even the tiniest things you both enjoy doing
together, ACTIVELY put your problems aside and begin to
rebuild the passion between you.

And do you know what invariably happens? Often once you’ve
rekindled the passion between you…the PROBLEMS will often work
themselves out.

The fires extinguish themselves.

Here’s how it may play out using our example;

Tom and Cindy both love cooking together.

They both actively decide to let their problems
go and NOT worry about them for awhile, but to start
by cooking dinner together and EATING together at
the dinner table…EVERY night.

Often because they’ve had such a great time cooking
and eating together…they play some cards or monopoly
afterwards and share some laughs and have a little fun.

Now, because Cindy isn’t feeling so isolated because
Tom’s always watching TV or surfing the web…

That little bit of fun turns into love making a little
more often.

Which in part…leads to…

Tom starting to feel better, finds new confidence,
and as his confidence builds… Tom gets more assertive
about finding work.

Soon…

Tom lands what maybe not the best job in the world, but one
that relieves a lot of the financial pressure until he
can find his perfect fit.

And before your very eyes…

Where Tom and Cindy’s relationship was about to burst
into flames…

Now, they are rising from the rubble with
a stronger and more fire proof marriage than ever before.

The moral of the story is that with enough PASSION
couples can overcome most any problem including affairs, drug use,
even death in the family.

But when there is very little passion even the tiniest
problems…become big, out of control, blazing fires.

Now if you’re reading this, but feel that an out
of control fire has already ‘gutted’ and put an end to your
relationship. You may find it comforting to know that there
may be a second chance for you?

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Have your relationship gone astray and it appears as if it cannot be repaired? Are you still in love with your ex and you are trying everything to get back together? Have you ever listened to the song, “Stop in the name of love” by Diana Ross and The Supremes? If not, you should definitely adhere to the message because, believe it or not, you could be doing some things that are tearing you two farther apart! But don’t worry…you are not alone! I have been in your shoes and the pain is real and it hurts deep! In this article, I will reveal to you 3 crucial mistakes that could be keeping you from a new loving relationship with your ex lover.

Mistake # 1: Oh, Please, baby, baby, Please

Crying, pleading or begging your ex to come back to you is a huge mistake!  Stop embarrassing yourself with these emotional reactions in the presence of your ex lover! This gives your ex power and control over the relationship.  This literally gives them permission to do anything! In addition, you lose your integrity and become less attractive.

Mistake #2: Not Taking Care Of Yourself

I want you to be honest in answering the following question.

What type of person are you more attracted to? Someone who radiates with confidence and good looks because they have put forth the effort? Or someone who have let themselves go because they are either too lazy or too content with their appearance?

Think about it!  What attracted your ex lover to you in the first place?  Look yourself in a mirror. Are you still displaying those same attractive qualities?

Just imagine how much attention you would receive if you would put in some extra time and effort into taking better care of your health and appearance. I personally lost some weight and it made a huge change in my love life! Take care of your body and good things will follow!

Mistake # 3: Excessive Phone Calls and Messages

Do not continually call, text or tweet your ex!  This is doing nothing but widening the distance between you and your former lover. Your ex received the first message you left but does not want to respond back to you. Everyone needs their space so let them have it! And please stop leaving messages such as “I love you”, “I miss you so much” or “I can’t live without you” on Twitter, MySpace, Facebook, text messages and email addresses.

This makes you appear clingy or needy. This is not good if you want to get your ex back!

These are only a few mistakes I learned. Yet, there are a lot more initial steps that helped me get back with my ex. And because of this, we now have a much stronger and loving relationship!

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